Its always been I who is being tested for patience,loyalty and trusting and trying to adjust with his unpredictable time schedule. I do wonder if you ask this blog just to get supporting advice. She is instructed to have children within wedlock very soon, raise these children in a Mormon home, and devote hours each week to church activities plus Sabbath observance on Sunday.
In my view, baptism at 8 is just a variation on infant baptism. By that I mean that we ought to consider simply marrying within the faith and in the temple for all the reasons that people have given. If you like her, and I'm assuming you do, I would suggest you continue the relationship and see how things pan out. You can't gamble on her seeing Mormonism for the shit show that it is. Do you see yourself marrying this person if marriage is something you are interested in for the future. Take your date to a club with loud music and an open bar, or an R-rated or violent movie, and the prospects of it going well are daunting. Most want nothing to do with the church. Reason being - he wants our relationship to be spontaneous like it was before the pre-med things really "kicked in".
These girls are nervous around non-Mormons. The views expressed by individual users are the responsibility of those users and do not necessarily represent the position of the Church. If you like living on someone else's coat times, them by all means. The Church does not recognize homosexual marriage, and does not condone sexual activity outside of marriage. He studies all day and night I live in my own world and my own circle. I'm surprised this thread is still getting replies. What if she absolutely despises sex.
And you seem like a good person. He feels obligated so often and wants to be a nice guy I don't think he even realizes how he hurts me when he so often chooses work. I have so often heard wow you married a doctor The truth is I will always come second to his job and he will never know how lonely I am for him to put me first. They will serve as a constant reminder to her that she needs to conform- and you won't be wearing any.