You will be able to best gauge where her beliefs stand in regards to the church if you listen to how she describes her mission. Fortunately most of my immediate family has done better. Good luck with her, and good life to you. I could never put up with the crap he has to put up with but he could never put up with the loneliness I have to put up with Awww this makes me sooo sad. Be a good influence. Maybe he thinks it wouldn't be a bad idea to cheat - these women understand him. If you are not creative just copy love poems from famous romantics. Make sure she is Even after that, the Church discourages them from entering serious relationships before they are considering marriage.
She can never hang out on Sundays because she apparently spends the entire day at church. I am so beyond afraid of what lies ahead in terms of residency; the loneliness, missing out on years of family experiences together, raising two kids by myself we have a 1. Sometimes I complain to my kids and to my husband. I guess I can understand that because his door needs to be locked from the outside and it would be too soon in our relationship to give me a key. Now Knowing your husband is surrounded by good looking women, makes you pray for them even harder. And depending on his views of the Sabbath, you will probably get the tug of war on Sundays. Earlier I mentioned "Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. You can be very committed to someone but only be able to fit them in the limited free time you have.
Additionally, just as corporate cultures exist, so does it exist for every family. You may look on here and see all of us, but a lot of us got out much much older. After my divorce I dated Mormon men в disastrous. The church really needs to tailor to more partial LDS families, imho. There are other ways. Certainly there are such people in the church, but there are such people in any organization, and I would challenge you to remember that the members are also individuals with thoughts, feelings and the ability to rebel in their own ways. It's been really helpful already. And what happens when we have kids?.
A lot of what you say about Support was what I expected to find in residency. However her husband joined the church a few years after their marriage. Pants-to-Church Sunday left me a bit bruised. I also studied his advice for approaching and dating women. I read every page of the CES letter, and it's definitely convinced me this entire religion is fabricated, but I'm sure she wouldn't even read it much less consider its points seriously. There is still a chance you can work out your differences, but it will require major concessions on both sides. Or when I get up at 5: So far I have not brought up any of this with him because I'm trying to offer all of that support and space you mentioned and I wanted to give him the chance to do it himself. What you are potentially choosing is certainly not the easiest path. I can accept her, and she's told me she can accept me The challenging part for me now is the idea of putting my kids through the brainwashing.
