She's told me the church is one of the most important things to her, but from what I've researched already there's no way I would subject my future children to this culture. I'm married an interventional cardiologist; and I wish I only knew 5 years ago before she started her fellowship what the heck I was signing up for. I know he loves me with all of his heart. I mean, I get where it comes from but it's so ridiculous. He is also a bit too neat. But no one can move on to one of the 3 Kingdoms until they accept Christ and totally repent. I realize my situation is less about marriage, and more about dating, but any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Don't expect a traditional marriage I am sorry for your story. I have had more than one girl, who I had definite chemsitry with, who the girl really liked me and we had deep and intense conversations as well as a real physichal connection to. Mormonism is a religion that's as manipulative as it is comforting. You have to come second right now.
Lyman April 24, How appropriate to celebrate this second night of Hannukah with not one but two queries about interfaith marriage. She will insist on raising her children in the Mormon church. If you have a literal belief that you need to have a temple marriage to go to the celestial kingdom, you will always keep a secret desire to convert your spouse.
If she can't put you before her religion then you need to walk away. You will have to convert and betray your ideals to keep the relationship alive. In many ways, she was everything that I ever wanted in a spouse, but in other ways she was not what I ever expected. It does kick your butt!.