You should expect that this will define your relationship with her. Willl he build resentment at the struggle to get him to change whether real or imagined. There are some gems like admission to peep stone in a hat translation to the book of Mormon and angels with swords commanding polygamy, but if someone believes Joseph Smith really did stuff his face into a hat and translate scriptures about ancient jews coming to America, it means they are insane, and you can't reason with an insane person. However, like the comment posted on March 18th the program only had one or two wives and the ones they do have are busy with their kids.
First of all, Mormons are people so there is a spectrum of what they actually believe on a personal level, and what beliefs are most important to them. I've done the pre-med, med school, residency, etc. I knew a woman who married a man who converted to the church and she spent the rest of their married life telling him he was not good enough. I follow a blogger who is a nurse and her stories are gut-wrenching. But those days may be gone.
Single parent when I met her. I am so glad to have found this blog too. I haven't read every post like you probably havebut I've read a lot of them. Try to find out his schedule in detail. Do you have a few suggestions for talking points I may want to bring up from stuff directly on LDS. You can consider some positive activities and allow you to communicate and learn from each other. Now to answer you question more directly, I believe you should discuss your fears with him so he understands exactly where you want your relationship to go for both of you, otherwise you might grow resentful of him and he may have no clue as to why.
This is legitimately how it is for most dudes in Mormondumb. Too often, I think, priesthood holders think that being overly controlling, they are simply wielding their authority in the home. Well, there were other circumstances that made it especially unique and One thing in your favor is the fact that she is in her late 20s by Mormon standards she is already an old maidhopefully she and her family will just want her to have love and not put the pressure on converting you, but there are countless stories of dudes getting dumped on here because ultimately they chose the church.