You do not want hear in jeans if you are planning to eat at a fancy restaurant. How could I help a non-Mormon spouse to feel like a member of my ward family when he is not a member of my church. I know, I know, this is the last thing you want to hear. You'll question your parenting decisions but he won't be involved in supporting you because he'll have no idea what's going on and little interest. If you have any questions about Mormonism doctrine or things or other angles on what she says feel free to message me. I expected long hours and lots of call, which there are.
Mormonism is a religion that's as manipulative as it is comforting. I agree she should be able to watch a movie or do her own research. This guy was orbiting so strongly that he changed his religion before they were even dating. Let her go right now then. I married a person, not a religion. In many ways, you yield some authority to the church. Those will make her think. Mormonism is an all-in religion.
I wana get married but im thinkin wether it wud be wise to get married after i finish studyin med. I let people assume what they will. He usually doesn't have time during shifts to grab food, and after shifts, he comes home and crashes. No hatred, bigotry, assholery, misogyny, misandry, transphobia, homophobia, racism or otherwise disrespectful commentary. Masculine attributes attract healthy, beautiful women, no matter where they come from. I expected long hours and lots of call, which there are. Tell her that you want your relationship with her, and her relationship with your children together to be separate from her religion with her god. Only idiots are unfriendly to non-Mormon spouses.
Marriage is hard, period. I'm really glad to hear a few of you have stories of happy interfaith relationships, or leaving the church together, so there's always a chance. Before I proposed, I actually broke up with my partner for a month в mostly due to family pressure. I would not want my children raised Mormon which she seems intent on. It sounds like you unfortunately ran into this guy at the wrong point in life. Having said that, I believe strongly that it takes a special individual who can remain active in the church and have a non-traditional marriage. But on the main page of exmormon Reddit on the side bar there is a link to a site with links to all the pages on LDS. I know in terms of so many things as well as financial stability choosing another path is very uncertain, we would also have the student loans we would have to pay back. Each time, I start to make friends and have to leave them and move.