Masculine attributes attract healthy, beautiful women, no matter where they come from. But I got tired of that, and I made it clear to him that I will stay in with him as often as he wants, put him to bed, make food with him or for him, clean, etc. This is legitimately how it is for most dudes in Mormondumb.
Honestly, I have given up on lds men as a single 25 year old. I think that if these two really care about each other that she should be told to take a moment and ask herself how she would feel if they break up over this and years later she finally researches her religion. We try to make this place a little better than we found it. Up to this point, she has just assumed that all atheists are innately evil people. If she says that the mission was the greatest experience and best two years of her life, any chance you have at a normal long-term healthy relationship is dim unless you convert.
The decisions we have made in how to raise our kids have been our decisions alone. Sorry, but it just isn't worth it. Do you drink alcohol. What's NOT to like about being the wife of a medical doctor. They are always dressed in decent clothing, and the same is expected of their date. Although I do want a long term relationship and to eventually start a family I am NOT going to give up my dream of becoming a physician. I've started to get annoyed when close friends approach him for medical guidance. It just plain sucks. It's what I agnostic atheist exmo do with my girlfriend reasonable TBM.
It's simply sometimes hard to accept that while he is your number one priority, you probably never will be. That was enough for him. So that may be the end of it there. She might not be keeping the Word of Wisdom, living according to the Law of Chastity, or attending church regularly. Children thrive on clarity and consistency.