But what does it really mean to be a patriarch, to lead your tribe. He is a great doctor and everyone loves him great that makes it easy there are always going to be flirty women if you are not a strong women then run. And it was the most miserable and lousy choice I ever made. Do not expect anything long term. And it was the most miserable and lousy choice I ever made.
It won't be easy with the lower salary but it will be better than the alternative. Or do you just push through the exhaustion because you care about the person and do things to make them happy even when you don't always feel like it. Cousin the same age who just got married has known her husband 6 months. That being said, we have built something beautiful and good, have modeled loving responsibility and accountability to our kids, and I am certain I am with the man God chose for me. Life is not perfect.
She is considered "an old maid" by Mormon standards, so she may be willing to marry you--hoping you will convert someday --but she will constantly be reminded that your marriage is inferior to the "Eternal Families" of sealed Mormons, and she will fear dying and never seeing her loved ones again. While you will be of the right age to date, the Church discourages you from trying to date someone while on your mission trip. But I also know that He loves us so much that He would never take away our ability to choose for ourselves.
I am dating a great guy who happens to be a very brilliant doctor going into residency very soon. She may have served a mission as an ultimatum to herself. I do not see this going well. This does not mean that you cannot do those things, but remember that she will not be able to do them with you. You I think are ok with that. You will always be second place.